The Snake/Aquarius is a big bundle of contradicting emotions and desires. People have been known to grow frustrated in their attempts to puzzle out the convoluted and self-negating messages that you're constantly sending. You are the sort of lover who is constantly demanding their own freedom, while simultaneously holding their opposite number to a double standard of absolute Snake-style fealty -- "on call" at all hours out of sheer insecurity.
It is only through your excellent Aquarian interpersonal communication skills that you can attempt to resolve this interminable battle inside yourself. By explaining what may appear to be a contradiction, you can save yourself and others a great many broken hearts. After all, it's a shame to lose a good relationship just because a few wires got crossed, and you're the only person who can unravel them.